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The Days Of Our Lives

The past...the present...the future!

How to not have cancer and lie about it to get married and move to the US while kicking your boyfriend in the b@lls at the same time

 




A Short True Story

Part I

In my previous company I was friends with 2 people called Deepesh and Simran (names changed as to not reveal identities) who had been going around for almost 8 years (since their college time). Simran was affected by cancer in college time and had undergone a lot of chemo therapy at that time. At the time I left GlobalLogic (my previous company) to join my curent company -in September last year- Simran was getting unwell again - cancerous bone marrow infection. She started taking lots of days off sick leave from work for her treatment at a reputed cancer institute in Delhi. Rest of the time, when she wasn't having her treatments - she and Deepesh used to hang out together going shopping and even meeting up with friends. Finally, I had gotten to know from Deepesh that Simran was going to Bombay for some special treatment which could not happen in Delhi. This was a month ago.

Since communicating with Simran was a problem (supposedly her phone was switched off the entire month), on inquiring about her health from her parents, one fine day, we found out that she had gotten married to someone else! Through the magic of social networking sites on the internet it was confirmed that she had gotten married a couple of weeks ago and tracing the IP contained in the header of her last sent mails, we found out that she was mailing from New Jersey, USA. Mind you, not a single mail contained anything about her getting married and all she mentioned time and time again to Deepesh was the fact that she was really unwell and was unconscious for 15-20 hours, making it difficult to contact anyone outside the hospital. She even mentioned that she would be back next weekend to watch a movie together.

What was really sad was the fact that Deepesh's mom had passed away, when he was a baby, from cancer and the girl knew that and was just playing with his emotions the entire time while hiding the other man in her life. She had supposedly gotten engaged to now-husband way back in August last year itself, yet continued fooling Deepesh, who not only used to pick and drop her from home (a 50 km diversion from his usual route to office) but had spent almost 300-400k rupees on her during that time including giving her loads of cash on her request for her *treatment* and spending hundreds of thousands for processing her H1B visa to the USA. Also, he had moved out his house after having a spat with his dad about them not accepting Simran. (a typical scenario at many Indian families)

Obviously when I found out how badly he had been duped, I picked up a few of our friends along the way and rushed to Noida. He seemed mentally scarred, plus he had no real support from his family about this. We consoled him nearly for 12 hours that day. The way the girl cold-heartedly conned the innocent fellow is something I'm sure none of us have ever experienced before. We are still debating over whether the guy should just let the girl lead a ever-happy life with her obviously ignorant husband, without any interference from any of us.

Edit: Removed some specific details.
 
This entry was posted on Thursday, May 01, 2008 at 11:29 PM.
 
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Thursday, May 01, 2008 11:38:00 PM Posted by Anonymous Anonymous

the headline is so shocking itself .. i can't imagine how the full story wud be like [:P]

My sympathies with the guy    



Friday, May 02, 2008 12:02:00 AM Posted by Anonymous Anonymous

Take the guy out for a couple of beers. Or more. There is nothing like beer in such times. Shit Happens.    



Friday, May 02, 2008 12:25:00 AM Posted by Blogger VC

You make it sound like the guy is a saint. Someone should tell her side of the story too.    



Friday, May 02, 2008 3:44:00 AM Posted by Anonymous Anonymous

I had told this dood to not to fall for any such bulls**t. But he wasn't interested as he was 'in love'.

I'd go with Russ and go for the beers..    



Friday, May 02, 2008 3:56:00 AM Posted by Blogger Parijat

50km diversion? You serious? And he paid for treatment why? Her parents were poor?    



Friday, May 02, 2008 8:57:00 AM Posted by Blogger Rahul

if this was a true story...a police complaint could have been easily lodged against the girl...why hasnt that happened yet?    



Friday, May 02, 2008 2:10:00 PM Posted by Anonymous Anonymous

I really cant belive such people actually exist. But as vartikaz said, I'd be interested in hearing her version of the story.

great to see u back dude. Every super hero HAS to come back :)    



Friday, May 02, 2008 2:11:00 PM Posted by Anonymous Anonymous

u have been blogrolled btw ...oops did i needed to ask a permission :)    



Thursday, May 08, 2008 2:53:00 PM Posted by Anonymous Anonymous

I agree with the bamboo.

Even if he doesn't want to go to the police, you should go and lodge a complaint anyway!

-The Bum    



Friday, May 09, 2008 5:24:00 AM Posted by Blogger Sumeet KD

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Friday, May 09, 2008 5:28:00 AM Posted by Blogger Sumeet KD

And they say we are the 'badder' sex    



Thursday, May 22, 2008 11:25:00 AM Posted by Blogger GrasshopperBoy

even though this was only part 1, i'm in no mood to post the "other side" of the story (since i anyway don't know too much about it)...so am letting it end here

@parijat: people do strange things in love

@all: thanks for spending your previous internet time here :)

p.s.: thanks mavrick :)    



Wednesday, May 28, 2008 10:05:00 AM Posted by Blogger Phoenix

Sometimes, some things make me feel ashamed of being a woman!    



Thursday, July 03, 2008 6:35:00 AM Posted by Blogger Dhammachintak Neel

This story is hard to believe at face value and hence probably not true completely. The two main source of information here being the mails ip and the social networking sites have had a long history of being used to spread wrong information and defaming others by alleged miscreants. Even if the mail's ip is right, someone might as well compose a mail from there.

I have a strong feeling that the marriage thing is not real but setup. The reasons differ if u consider 2 different authors.

A foe of Deepesh dould actually use it to harm him because anyways it is difficult for him to make contact with the girl

If the girl herself has mailed and put up her marraige thing on the net, then it is possible that she might have done it on purpose to not trouble Deepesh anymore. Maybe she doesnt want to be a cause of trouble for him. Maybe she is dying.. you never know..

But at face value, I don't think I can believe this 100%.    



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